Saturday, January 14, 2006

Relative change....

Change is lovely...change is amazing...change is what keeps a guy going...change is what makes humans so soooo well...human!

But lets say you change something about yourself...you might change, and be ok with it...but are others cool with it? How do others reacting to your change affect your change in it self? Will you revert back a little? Or will you feel pissed...or will you ignore everybody and go ahead with less tension...but does this make you not very amiable to feedback which it is sort of important after any change?

I mean...a change without any subsequent feedback negates the entire purpose...atleast in most cases where the change is made in a reactive way...or in the better cases where the change is proactive.

But sometimes, doesn't it piss you off when other people notice the change and ask stupid questions? Guess its part of the game eh...hopefully it should not influence you enough to revert back to your original state...that's cowardice in case you are one who changes after much thought...or you are impulsively ethical or such...ah...rare people those...anyway...that's more or less my point.

What i am getting at is this...that change is good...and one must not be afraid to change while thinking about what other people might say or react...be yourself and be honest to yourself first! Life will be good.